Bergenfield (N.J.) High School football coach Rob Violante was killed in a two-car crash on the Taconic State Parkway in New Castle, N.Y. on the afternoon of May 14.
The New Jersey Football Coaches Association confirmed that Violante was one of the people killed in the crash.
Violante was hired at Bergenfield in 2011 and was about to enter his 15th season tied as the longest-tenured head coach in program history.
He won 61 games with the Bears, reaching the playoffs five times. The Bears finished 2-8 in 2024, ending the season with a win over Tenafly.
Rob’s father, Frank, is the athletic director at Glen Rock High School.
‘He was more than a coach, he was a mentor, father figure, and a source of strength for our students and community,’ Bergenfield mayor Arvin Amatorio posted on Facebook. ‘His impact as Head Football Coach and Dean of Students will never be forgotten.’
”Coach V’ was more than just a teacher and coach—he was a mentor, a father figure, and a true friend to so many,’ Bergenfield Supt. Christopher M. Tully said in a letter sent to school community on the morning of May 15.
‘He always put students first and believed in helping them reach their highest potential. Known for his compassion, dedication, and quiet strength, he instilled discipline through tough love and created lasting bonds with those lucky enough to be in his presence. His heart of gold and unwavering support made him a beloved figure in our schools.’
The letter said that grief counselors would be available at the high school for anyone wishing to speak with someone.
Here is the full letter sent to the Bergenfield school community: